MARRIAGE- IS IT NECCESSARY

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People say Marriage is essential and you cannot escape it. Its the norm of a society to find a suitable partner, get married have children and increase the population. With time, marriage has taken more of a form of business deal, a compromise, an adjustment where two people with mutual consent come together and spoil each other. Marriage now is not essentially a union of soul mates. 

 I strongly feel unless and until you haven't met your soul mate, you should not get married, simply for the sake of getting married. Just because your parents are forcing you, just because you think what would people say. No, never. Never make this mistake. Marriage is not a joke, you have to spent a whole life with a person and you cannot tie the knot with anyone. if you do so, you are ruining your life and your partner's too. you will lose the best parts of your life just arguing and fighting with a fool. you will regret, you will cry, but the damage has been done my friend. Nothing can be more terrible than marrying a wrong person and living under the same roof with her dragging a dead relation.

 In the first case, "why get married ?" You become answerable to a Person. You give authority to a person to question you. You lose your freedom, your care free days. You have to bother about your wife, then you will have kids. Another responsibility.  A BORING LIFE. yawnnnnnnnnnnn. You just have one life and you spend it obeying your parents, your teachers, your relatives, your wife and then your children. SUCH A PITY......

 Think if we decide to be alone, we would have a complete monopoly in our lives. all decisions we can take thinking of our own self. Life would be so much fun. Do what you want and no one will question you. Party hard, climb rocks. jump from mountains,dive deep into the sea,help people and so much. Do things at your will. But then people say, What will you do, when old age strikes you, when your youthful energy will be gone, who would look after you, you will be lonely, very lonely.

 To them my answer is. Marriage doesn't guarantees a Happy life after you reach 60. Problems would always be there, no matter you are married or a bachelor. And if i do feel lonely, i would marry in my old age...ha ha ha ha problem solved.  For that why to waste the best years of my youth.

Comments

  1. Anonymous17 April 2014 at 07:13

    Marriage is about maturity and being ready for such sort of commitment. It's sad to see how some young people are forced to marry though, because of adults who think that is how those become mature. It's false.

    As for your own approach to life, it is normal to have such approach at the age of 20+. You are right marriage doesn't garantee anything unless you decide to take responsibility not only for yourself, but someone else too.

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